Your attitude should not depend on how people treat you.
Attitudes, behaviour speaks louder than words. It is important to be aware of how we react to the different circumstances we face daily. We need to have dominion to clearly express ourselves based on our morals and values, regardless of how people treat us.
Meaning that your daily attitudes should not change as a result of how people treat you. That is one of the greatest reasons to be ourselves and to have values and standards well set, to avoid acting out of character.
Our values, beliefs, standards are daily tested by the different circumstances we face in life. However, we were given the power and authority to choose how to act upon them.
Imagine how often your attitude will vary in a day, based on how people treat you? Just take a minute and reflect on that. It will be completely caos. One hour you're well-spoken, on your best behaviour, then on the next day, you're fighting, shouting and making a scene because somebody disrespected you.
Who are you truly?
Understand that our daily attitudes and our behaviour are the results of our values, beliefs, morals, habits and all of them shape our character.
When we give in and act on any provocative and unnecessary circumstances thrown at us daily, we disrespect ourselves, we lose dignity and that's all we don't want.
Me and You, we don't want to act out of character. Instead, we want to build our character, we want to be on our best behaviour.
You must be saying, you don't understand there are just things that make my blood boil, I can't just let them fly. Honnie YES YOU CAN!
Build resilience, build the mindset that teaches you to flee from people and circumstances that only degrade yourself. They don't add you any value honnie.
There are many different ways to go about it, BUT DO NEVER entertain somebody with no standards and nothing to lose, because guess what, you'll be the one to lose yourself and dignity.
You lose nothing by ignoring people and circumstances, you don't gain or learn anything from.
Remember our character is shaped by our behaviour, our values and morals, our beliefs and daily attitudes. Be sure to make the best use of them always.
You have too much value to allow yourself to give into unpleasant circumstances.
Choose to be the best version of yourself.
How is your attitude shaping your character? Let me know in the comments down below.
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